a birthday celebration the lola style
i had the most meaningful (and terribly funny) conversation with lola today at a friend's 21st party. she is the most happening girl i know, really.

as we were overlooking our pretty friend (in tiara and frou-frou dress no less!) cutting her cake for her 21st birthday, lola and i talked about our own 21st birthdays (hers on 8th jul and mine, well, wear your specs to find it). i was just telling her who i will invite and what i will want to do for my birthday and all. you know, like how a 21st birthday should be.

but she completely blew my mind when she told me how she wanted hers (if she ever wants one). i was close to suffocation when she told me. HAHAHA.

extracted from our conversation:

me: so what do you want for your 21st party?
lola: i don't know, i don't really want to celebrate it.
me: really?! but confirm can earn presents and $ one.
lola: if i really want to hold a 21st, i'll make everybody wear black. and when they come, i'll make them sit in a circle with candles around and force them to mourn and cry for my lost youth.
me: *GUFFAWS*
lola: and i'll have a eulogy for my past 21 years and we will have to say things like "i will miss you, you're forever gone and is never coming back" kind of thing.
me: *LAUGHS EVEN HARDER*
lola: and i'll like have a fake coffin with my big photo in front and everybody has to cry for me. (then she said something about how her parents need to hire the priest to shake the bells for her HAHAHAHAHA)
me: OMG, then you can have your birthday party at the void deck with those yellow tentage thing.
lola: yeah! you must send me the colourful blanket so i can hang outside okay (with those chinese for "my condolences" or what not)
me: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. since i'm a Christian, i'll send you the blue board with the bible verse.
lola: okay that sounds good.

i died laughing.

that's my favourite friend, everybody.